If there is one thing that I have learned since the hitachi has entered the picture is that I hold back.
I think this actually happens more than I totally realize. Probably with Sir too... Its like I fight to control the orgam, like it has to be on my terms. In reality I think this not only robs me of some it also takes some and makes them smaller than they actually could be.
How does one fix this?
How do I know that I am doing this? I feel it.
I reign in my voice, more often than not trying to be mute.
I take some of the vibration away so it will not be as intense.
I will clamp down myself instead of being loose and relaxed and letting it take over me.
In reading more about wet orgasms I believe I have learned that I have stopped them from happening.
However, I have achieved them in the past and not really realized what they where... in my young stupidity I thought I was wetting the bed. I now realize, through lack of smell it was actually a squirting orgasm. My head has now taken those away from me, and I would like to get it back on occasion :)
So something to work on.... who knew sex is so much work?!
9 months ago
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I apologize for posting so deep in your old posts but my wife and I seem to be having a problem simular to the one you are describing.
have you figured out a way to get around the holding back? My wife holds back. We have talked about this but we are both at a bit of an impass. We would be grateful for anything you may have discovered.
Feel free to email me directly if you would prefer. Thanks!
Lots more practice ;)
No really I have been with Sir for a long time so that is not the issue. I trust him... but...
Some habits are hard to break, perhaps he needs to break me in order to break the cycle? (meaning break in a good way)
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